If you victimize or participate in stalking, God is beckoning to you too because he cares for you. Psychologists and sociologist say that people who victimize are often experiencing emotional pain themselves. They may take their feelings out on others. The abusive spouse or parent, sibling, school mate, or other has a problem that begs professional attention. I am not in a position to offer professional help but, I can offer or share some powerful spiritual help and healing.
In order to receive help you must first recognize that you are a victimizer – you inflict pain on others. God’s word says that you walk in darkness. That is not to say that you can not change. It could be that you do not have a desire to change; that would be a great loss for you. God promises that he can provide a way out of your darkness but, you must reach out and take hold. You can have “life more abundantly” (John 10:10) if you desire to walk in the light. Even Paul, was a great sinner but, God changed him and he became one of the greatest apostles (Christian teacher or leader)(Acts 9). If you desire to live a better life but feel you do not have the power to change resolve to reach out. Resolve to be free- to be loosed – to be happier. Even the backslider (Christian not living according to God’s word) can be brought out of the darkness and reminded that “a tree is known by the fruit it bears” (Matthew 7:16-20). The backslider must realize that God is especially not pleases with his actions (Psalms 103:9) (James 4:17) . (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12). Please see the scriptures selected for you, especially those under the heading “Repentance”. Know that when God frees you you are then CHOSEN for a special purpose.
