As Christians we can rest assured that we have been redeemed by the blood.  This, of course, is based on repentance from sin and living according to God’s will.  We are sanctified, that is, set aside for God’s glory and purpose.  We may slip sometime but, should not be practicing sin on a continuing basis.  We refer to a Christian that regularly commits the same sins as a “backslider” – one who turns away from God’s teachings.

One pastor, commenting on backsliders said “you do what you do because you are what you are”.  Another writer listed the main causes of backsliding.  Three of these causes are relevant to the context of this page.  They are: lack of spiritual insight and commitment; neglect of regular Bible reading, prayer and fellowship with other believers; and corruption from evil companions or influences.  The backslider must realize that God is especially not pleased with his actions (Psalms 103:9) (James 4:17) (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12) (2 Peter 2:20).  If you have “slipped” because of corruption from evil influences or other reasons, and have become a victimizer or “let your light grow dark” (Luke 11:35) come back to God.  Come home as the prodigal son did.  Reclaim you birthright (John 3:3).

2 Chronicles 7:14
Proverbs 6:16-19
Proverbs 23:7
Psalms 5:4-6
Psalms 52:3
Psalms 103:9
Jeremiah 3:22
Hosea 14:4
Matthew 7:16-21
Luke 6:42-46
Luke 11:35-36
John 8:7
John 14:23-24
Acts 9:4
Acts 9:13-15
Romans 13:1-8
2 Corinthians 6:17
2 Corinthians 13:5-6
Galatians 1:23
Galatians 5:1
Galatians 5:22
Galatians 6:7
Galatians 6:10
Ephesians 5:6-12
Philippians 2:12
Colossians 3:17
2 Thessalonians 1:11-12
1 Peter 2:1
1 Peter 3:12
2 Peter 2:20
1 John 3:15-20
1 John 4:20-2

If you victimize or participate in stalking, God is beckoning to you too because he cares for you. Psychologists and sociologist say that people who victimize are often experiencing emotional pain themselves. They may take their feelings out on others.  The abusive spouse or parent, sibling, school mate, or other has a problem that begs professional attention.  I am not in a position to offer professional help but, I can offer or share some powerful spiritual help and healing.

In order to receive help you must first recognize that you are a victimizer – you inflict pain on others.  God’s word says that you walk in darkness.  That is not to say that you can not change.  It could be that you do not have a desire to change; that would be a great loss for you.  God promises that he can provide a way out of your darkness but, you must reach out and take hold.  You can have “life more abundantly” (John 10:10) if you desire to walk in the light. Even Paul, was a great sinner but, God changed him and he became one of the greatest apostles (Christian teacher or leader)(Acts 9).  If you desire to live a better life but feel you do not have the power to change resolve to reach out.  Resolve to be free- to be loosed – to be happier.  Even the backslider (Christian not living according to God’s word) can be brought out of the darkness and reminded that “a tree is known by the fruit it bears” (Matthew 7:16-20). The backslider must realize that God is especially not pleases with his actions (Psalms 103:9) (James 4:17) .  (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12).  Please see the scriptures selected for you, especially those under the heading “Repentance”. Know that when God frees you you are then CHOSEN for a special purpose.

If you are a “Targeted Individual”, as I am, you should know that we battle powers and principalities in high places and that we must put on the armor of God to endure.  We must set our sight on things on high.  No one knows his appointed time but, while we have life we can live it free of bondage.   Resolve to escape your bondage through God.  Draw close to God – really close – and he will draw close to you.  Talk to him.  Learn his precepts and promises.  When you read the scriptures provided meditate on them.  Ask yourself how you can apply them to your life.  Participate in our forum.  Tell us what the scriptures mean to you- how they are making a change in your life.  You will find that when God’s word goes out it does not return void (Isaiah 55:11) – it has impact, comfort just when it is needed.  You will be able to endure when you thought you could not.  Your circumstance may not change but, you will find peace and gain strength in the midst of your circumstance.

Jesus said “take this cup from me – not my will Lord but yours”.  We can have victory surrounded by enemies because we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:27 ).  Paul, who had a constant ailment he referred to as “a thorn in his side”, knew that his power came from God.  As I talked with people in the course of this “ministry”, including those that stalked me,  I realized that there are a great number who had experienced, or were experiencing, devastating or overwhelming circumstances.  There was nothing special about my circumstance, in fact, as incredible as it may seem to the “targeted individuals”, some were worse off than I am. This is life.  What is special about my situation is the realization that God had CHOSEN me for a purpose. You too, can have increasing strength and confidence.  Share the “good news” about POWER because you have been called for a purpose.  Let us exhort and encourage one another (I Thessalonians 5:11). God has chosen you. Join me in saying why not me?

Peace be unto you.  I am assuming that if you are reading this you are seeking something. Whether you are seeking reassurance, self-validation, answers to life’s questions, peace or something else, if you are here you are acknowledging that you have a need.  I am hopeful that what I am offering will set you on the path to meeting that need.

If you feel you are struggling and from time to time and ask the question “why me -why me!” Why am I gay or lesbian?  Why am I picked on and bullied.  Why are people so mean?  Is there a God?  Sometimes this may be the burning question.  I assure you there is  a God and he cares for you. You may have at one time felt that you did not “fit in” at church.  You may have felt uncomfortable when the pastor spoke on sexuality.  Don’t run away and by all means don’t hide.  These scriptures have been selected just for you:

Psalms 59:1-2 (God hears the cries of his own)

Psalms 100 ( It is God who has made you and he makes no mistakes)

Psalms 139:14  (He makes no mistakes)

Ecclesiastes 11:5  (God knew you in your mother’s womb.)

Isaiah 55:8-9 (Who can dare to know the mind of God)

Jeremiah 29:11 (God’s opinion is what matters.)

Malachi 2:10 (God see us as equal and expects us to love one another.)

Acts 10:34  (God does not see male or female, rich or poor, Black or White – he views all the same.)

Romans 1:26-27  (The key word here is “natural” (King James version). This is often the most used scripture to justify disfavor of the LGBT community.  You are existing “naturally” as God made you.  God makes no mistakes.

Romans 10:11-13  (God hears all that believe and call on him)

Romans 5:1-5  (Accept and believe and you are justified by your faith – just like everybody else.)

I Corinthians 2:5, 16 (Many try to speculate why God does certain things but, who can know the mind of God?  Just know that God is omnipotent).

Galatians 3:28  (God sees the heart.)

Philippians 3:13 (You have power, press on.)

Colossians 3:11  (All are equal through Christ.)

1 Timothy 2:4  (It is God’s will that all be saved.)

Hebrews 10:35-36  (Hold on – God cares for you.  In due time you will find peace.)

Revelations 4:11  (God created all things.)

The list of recommended scriptures without comment:

Ecclesiastes 11:5
Psalms 4:3
Psalms 7:10
Psalms 9:8-10
Psalms 33:12-13
Psalms 84:11
Psalms 139:14
Psalms 145:9-12
Proverbs 5:15-17, 21 (monogamy)
Proverbs 8:17
Isaiah 45:9-10
Matthew 19:6
Matthew 19:12
Luke 4:18
Acts 11:9,17
Acts 11:21
Acts 15:8-11
Acts 20:32
Romans 2:11
Romans 3:23
Romans 5:1
Romans 10:9
Romans 11:34
I Corinthians 6:19
I Corinthians 7:9
I Corinthians 7:23-24,28
I Corinthians 10:29-30
I Corinthians 12:13, 23
II Corinthians 3:17-18
Galatians 6:13-17
Galatians 3:28
Galatians 5:1
Galatians 6:4
Ephesians 2:10,18-19
Philippians 2:3
Colossians 1:16-17
Colossians 1:21-22
Colossians 3:11
I Timothy 4:4-8
Hebrews 13:4
Hebrews 13:14
James 2:3
James 4:10-11
I Peter 3:16
II Peter 3:17-18
I John 4:8
Revelations 4:11

My heart goes out to you.  My first concern is that you tell someone else immediately.  If you are a youth tell you parents or a trusted adult.  If you are an adult tell another trusted adult and seek legal or professional assistance.  If you feel you have no one to turn to, by all means communicate with God.  Your pastor can help you. If you cannot talk to a pastor I will be happy to guide you in this regard.  It is for this purpose that God has chosen me.  In fact, it is the very reason that God has led me to create “YME” – to let you know that he cares.  It is he that can be your refuge and deliver you from the oppressor.

I can imagine that like “targeted individuals” or some in the LGBT community, your overwhelming feeling towards your victimizer is one of anger or hatred or a desire for revenge.  You should know that these emotions, though they are real and painful, are what “binds” you and gives your victimizer control over you.  It is like something eating away at you from the inside. Fear, worry, and isolation can be a terrible chain that binds.  God can break the chain that binds you – you can be  “loosed” or set free. Know that your victimizer thrives on your fear, worry and isolation.  By the grace of God, you can turn the tables and take back control of your life. Resolve to be free.  Seize the power of God.  Say today “Whom God sets free is free indeed” (John 8:36).  Repeat this every day and see the selected scripture prepared for you. You see, someone greater than you or me cares, and because he cares he has CHOSEN you to be free and spread his message of love.

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